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Jul. 11th, 2009 | 08:03 pm

Woke up early to catch subway train to meet my friend and go to horse farm. We painted the metal bars on the jungle gym, some tables, and fences. Of course, I talk too loud and she deemed my retelling of someone else's story inappropriate. *sad face* It's not like I was saying anything more outrageous that what those Mormon boys might have heard. The lady who owned the farm was super nice and asking us if we had brought lunch. We didn't and ate our food during the hour ride to Maryland, but we got slushies on our way back. Yay. I'm not sure that's how mango tastes in nature though. Maybe 7-11 mango.

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stories

May. 9th, 2009 | 09:13 pm


Chuck Palahniuk is on tour for his book, Pygmy, and he was at Borders this Saturday. One of my friends from college really enjoyed his books and I didn't get around to reading Fight Club until relatively recently. When Jessica and I got to the bookstore around 4:30, all the seats were taken. Jessica commented that it might have been the most popular book event she'd attended. We forgot that Anderson Cooper's appearance was pretty crowded but we were also late. Fans were getting books signed and posing for pictures with Chuck holding a big trophy. He started off saying, "Tomorrow's Mother's Day," laughter from audience, "Do something." My friends and I were unimpressed but he is funny. Seemed like some of his fans are so in love that they will laugh at anything. I was really distracted by figuring out how to obtain an inflatable penguins (http://www.epartyunlimited.com/24-inch-inflatable-penguin.html) he threw out for games. Being in the back, the balled up penguins didn't fly very far. They were worth it and we certainly knew they were worth it when a 6 year old girl started touching Theresa's penguin. She'd been looking at it longingly when we sat down though.

One thing Chuck said was that journalists steal stories and journalists are culturally autistic so they use journalism to interact with the outside world.

My friend, Gary, gave me a ride from Dragon Boat Practice to Alexandria for the Trademark Expo. On the way there, he and his boyfriend, Kevin, told me about an argument they had in a restaurant because Kevin was complaining about how loud the teenagers nearby were being. Gary told him, "You just hate laughter!" Kevin responded by saying, "Well, you hate babies!" On King Street, Kevin said "Oh, there are chickens." Yes, there was a rooster and two chickens which I wouldn't have noticed. "At first, I thought that they were lawn ornaments but then the lawn ornament started moving and I realized they were alive." Yep, I don't expect to see chickens in Northern Virginia.

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State of Virginia - I didn't know you had a store!

Mar. 11th, 2009 | 12:17 am

While I was trying to educate myself about what Virginia elected officials as the Soil and Water Conservation Directors are responsible for, I stumbled upon a retail site that I wanted to share!

Shopping with the State of Virginia: links that show you were to buy fire prevention manuals, peach seedlings, see bass puppets, faberge eggs, and more!! I think the peaches are a bit expensive for an impulse purchase though. They cost about $93 for 50 seeds!

PS I still haven't figured out why the Soil and Water Conservation Director needs to be elected and not appointed but I could just be ignorant. Soil and Water Conservation Director just screamed out "this one does not belong" in the list that contained Senate of Virginia, Clerk of Court, Commonwealth Attorney, Commissioner of Revenue, etc. If someone knows why, I'm curious to know!

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Syllogism, physical fitness, and criminal behavior

Jul. 8th, 2008 | 01:07 am

Definition of this particular syllogism, Fallacy of Undistributed Middle. Link from Sarah.

NY Times article, "Exercise: Link Is Seen Between Crime and Fitness" talks about a study of Arkansas inmates that suggests criminals there's a link between physical fitness and criminal behavior because a higher than average percentage of prison inmates are mesomorphs. Prison also has endomorphs, "fatties," and ectomorphs, "skinnies," but they were less likely to be committed for violent crimes.

    The new study does find that mesomorphs make up an unusually large percentage of the prison                   population, from 62 percent to 73 percent.

    But that does not mean that being fit is a predictor of criminal tendencies, said one of the authors, Jeffery     T. Walker of the University of Arkansas at Little Rock.

    “Those who are fit may have personalities that are more likely to make them violent,” Dr. Walker said in    an e-mail message.

    “In essence,” Dr. Walker said, “what drives them to be fit also drives them to be violent. It is also likely that those who are fit find themselves in violent situations more.”

The theory for the higher rates of mesomorphs in the prison population seemed like they needed more evidence or go into why there's a link. An article I read tonight seemed to have a more in-depth explanation for the higher fitness levels of prison inmates but it doesn't disagree with Walker's idea that the motivating factor for physical fitness is the same as violent actions. In Atlantic Monthly, "The Code of the Streets," Elijah Anderson talks about street culture and learned behavior for poor inner-city black youth that may cause them to be more aggressive. The author describes decent and street socialization as "two poles of value orientation," but it's not a clear cut divider. Street socialization would help explain the relative physical fitness of prison inmates. Of street socialized youth, the author writes "They quickly learn to hit those who cross them, and the dog-eat-dog mentality prevails. In order to survive, to protect oneself, it is necessary to marshal inner resources and be ready to deal with adversity in a hands-on way. In these circumstances physical prowess takes on great significance.

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Festival!!

Jun. 23rd, 2008 | 09:33 pm

The Smithsonian Folklife Festival starts this week and I'm happy that Debbie has agreed to go with me! We're going to see the Texas exhibit, "From Cattle Drives to Winery Trails: Food and Wine" and "The Thunder Dragon Comes to Washington." I told Debbie that  "I hope it's tasty food, and not bad cowboy food." She got excited, "I've never had cowboy food!" Ahhh! I hope it doesn't disappoint for her because in my mind, it's beef jerky and canned beans. :o( When I think of Debbie, I automatically think of Misono. Eee! It's almost July, and almost time for her wedding! Time flies.

I feel both energetic and tired. Work was great today because I met my manager (she's blonde! I thought she'd be a brunette). I think it's cool that I got to know her over the phone so my impression of her is not based on knowing her physical appearance which is different from my other work interactions. Instead of being distracted by unrelated thoughts like "I wonder if she burns easily" or "Her white blonde hair must be thin," I thought "She's very personable and easy to relate to." When I told Kobby, my team mate in the Alpharetta office that I got to meet our manager, he said "You're lucky," and "We all love her here." Yay!

The other nice thing is I got to catch up on a lot of online reading! I think it has been months since I was able to read news online uninterrupted. Ahh, project honeymoon period is nice. Now, if I could just get all the pesky log-ins to work.

Started off the morning (at home) with Washington Post and read an article that confirmed what a couple of my friends have been saying all along - too much worky != money & happiness. This article, "How Rich People Spend Time," talks about a study that shows that wealthier people have less unstructured leisure time so all that time for status, wealth, and power doesn't lead to more time for yourself. Ack! I thought it kind of related to the NY Times article about how there's this Harvard professor forcing students to consider what they want out of life - maybe reconsider that I-Banking and management consulting career and move towards public service so they can have more meaningful careers. Great idea but it seemed like several of the Harvard students they quoted were going to finance or consulting companies like Bain and McKinsey.

The research which won the 2007 Ig Nobel Awards were interesting to read about. I like the photographs in the National Geographic article.

One of my favorite articles from Smithsonian Magazine, "In John they Trust," was about worship of some man called John Frume. The journalist asks things like “If he’s an American, why does he live in your volcano?” The description of John Frume's commute was also pretty awesome, "John moves from America to Yasur and back, going down through the volcano and under the sea." Yeah, because island gods can do that sort of thing, use volcano as subway station and the sea as a subway tunnel.

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Dom!!

Jun. 20th, 2008 | 06:38 pm

I told Dom I would post, and then I forgot! I'm making up for it now. This past week, I was visiting my friend, Sarah, while she's dogsitting. It was fun but I kept falling asleep when we tried to watch movies. It was tragic. Last night, I started dozing off at 9:30.

Saturday was Misono's bridal shower and bachelorette party at Debbie's in Shady Grove. I had a lot of fun...Debbie and Hanna had yummy foods. The crustless tuna and cucumber sandwiches made my day! When Romesh and I had to walk across this bridge during the height of summer to our Canon internship, we would daydream out loud about what we wanted to eat.

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getting ready

Aug. 31st, 2007 | 06:06 am
mood: sleepysleepy

Tonight, flying out for vacation but I've got to complete work-related things and final vacation stuff. Around the end of Thursday afternoon, Dom and I were talking about Friday plans since a high school classmate is visiting this Labor Day weekend but I'll be away. I've been looking forward to traveling for months, but it's as if I just started figuring out how to enjoy summer when it ends. Vacation will definitely be fun - hopefully, I will be able to get everything I need to done within the next 8 hours.

Happy Labor Day Weekend!

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today is a rainy day

Jun. 14th, 2007 | 08:38 am

My friend, Ed, was talking about how he wished that there was more than one intern on his project so they could race them. Kathryn said that wouldn't be fun, and when she was an intern, she wouldn't have wanted to be raced. Then, Ed raised his arms over his head, and waved them around like some kind of easygoing chimpanzee saying, "I didn't have much to do. I would've loved to race!" 

My brother is an intern this summer, without much effort on his part, and perhaps there's hope for him that he won't be unemployed after graduation or working in fast food. When I told him about racing interns, he said that he wouldn't want to race his interns because they'd be sad when he won. He calls the other two interns, one who is older than him, "My interns," even though he has no supervisory authority over them. I asked him why he referred to them as "my interns," and he said it was because he was Intern #1. Their manager had arbitrarily designated him #1. The logic doesn't congeal for me why being #1 means that they're his interns - maybe the other interns also refer to the others as "my interns."

I think it's nice that he's befriending girls. The three of them share a cubicle, and he said that he wasn't sure if a computer would fit into their cubicle. Yesterday, he wanted to prove to them that they could lock the cubicle from outside, so he went outside, and ended up outside of their shared cubicle for about 5 minutes locked out by the other two.

When it was storming outside yesterday in the afternoon, Ed IM'd me to "Look out the window!" I thought that there might be flying monkeys! No, he wanted me to see the hailstorm. Hailstorms in summer, yay!

Angelina reminded me of a line in Science of Sleep when Charlotte Gainsbourg's character, Stephanie, asks Gael Garcia Bernal's character, Stephan, "Why me?" and he answers, "Because everyone else is boring. And because you are different. "  Here are more funny/poignant quotes from the movie off of IMDB. Angelina pointed out that "it was the way he said it, like a little child. you know how children answer questions that adults ask as if they couldn't believe how stupid we are that we would ask it." Eek, we are adults...and we've become boring. Here's to not being boring!

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first account-wide meeting

Jun. 7th, 2007 | 07:52 am

Wednesday afternoon, I had my first account-wide meeting. Like the brown bag luncheon I attended previously, this was conducted in a conference room over the phone with powerpoint. The majority of staff are in Kansas, so they were at a game center, and the connection wasn't good. Sometimes, people weren't speaking loudly enough into the phone, and most of the time, I just didn't recognize the technical terms they were referring to (maybe something I should study). Near the end of the call, a boy's voice was heard on the phone, saying "Hello?" and everyone in the room laughed.

My manager and I were a few minutes late, because I'd packed up my stuff so I could leave right away after the meeting. He'd asked if I was going to HH, and I told him I wan't sure if I was going to go to dinner at Paolo's in Reston Town Center, which I suspected was a sandwich place (ugh). They weren't ready to start at 5:30 Eastern, and my manager joked that part of the problem was his fault for sending in his slides late. This blonde guy asked me, "Are you Mimi? I'm Nelson!" We'd exchanged e-mails about my project's summary info for the account monthly postcard which gives updates on what's going on, but I'd never met him. About an hour into the meeting, this funny senior manager I'd never met before called Bosco. Bosco is balding with dark hair, and dark undereye circles. He asks Nelson, "What are you doing here?" because Nelson rolled off of the project last Friday. Nelson said, "I want a free dinner!" Bosco complains, "That's all I am to you all. A big American Express card."

Dinner was funny too, except I would've liked it if Adam hadn't talked so much because when Adam was talking, Bosco was polite enough to let him talk even though I think Bosco knew he was a better storyteller. There was 6 of us at the table, but Bosco and Adam talked the most. Bosco was animated, self-deprecating, and made entertaining facial expressions. Nelson and I were ready to leave so we had gone ahead to the restaurant, so I had an opportunity to talk with him before everyone else got there. He was really easy to talk to, and someone I could see being good friends with if I had the opportunity.

We were talking about what was the best way to reach other people in our company: IM, e-mail, or phone, and Bosco overheard so he got into the conversation...or tried to, but Adam wanted to talk. Augh! Bosco tried to tell us about his presentation to college students using a chart relating depth of relationship and time. For example: Snail mail is slow, but high relationship points because the recipient feels pretty good (he asked us "How do you feel when you get a letter?" - sign to me of good conversationalist). E-mail is fast, but we receive so many e-mails (obviously boring/annoying work ones you want to ignore) that they might not be successful. Yes, true, and I think this was an introductory topic that could lead to other interesting conversations except Adam interrupted to tell us wedding website story, and how he met his fiance - he casually IM'd her and asked if she was available for a formal, and did she have a formal dress handy. Auuugh, what a lame way to ask someone out. Bosco and I disapproved, but Bosco was also nice about it saying it was such a great story that he would incorporate it into his presentation.

Bosco was telling us analysts the type of communication available when they started. Phones, because analysts and consultants (2 lowest) weren't issued laptops. He pantomined for us the elaborate process of submitting our bimonthly time reports. When Nelson asked about huge laptop computers, Bosco feinted offense, and said indignantly, "I'm not that old, Nelson! Yes, we had pterodactyls work our computers." HA. Flintstone reference.

We were at the restaurant from about 7:45 until 11 pm when Nelson said, "I have to get going. I need to catch the bus." Since he lives in Arlington, I offered to drop him off at the subway station. Since Nelson has to find a new role, I was able to ask him about his search process, and he shared that he wants to get out to the west coast or Australia, but the hiring parties are dragging their feet. It was good to know how the staffing process felt like for someone else, and commiserate. Yay, new friend at work!

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applying for new project angst

Jun. 4th, 2007 | 09:56 pm

Today is the twins' 25th birthday, so I e-mailed Julie birthday wishes, and inquired after her cross-country train vacation she took in May. She sent me pictures of her vacation, and I definitely freaked out about being so out-of-it with her. She said she was meeting Angel for lunch because they worked near each other. At least, I saw Angel two weeks ago when I went to field day with Xiaolu.

The rest of the workday, I spent freaking out about applying for new projects. I hope I'm done with freaking out now that I've remembered that I'm supposed to apply through the intranet, and don't need to e-mail. I was wondering why I wasn't attaching my resume, and it's only been three months, but I'd forgotten. I suspect that my manager thinks that I don't spend that much time working, because he told me if I find a project I really want to get on, I shouldn't feel tied down. That I would be able to finish up my duties on my current project, but still get on a cool, new project.

Friday afternoon, I'd e-mailed my career counselor and HR Rep to remind them that I was rolling off, and ask for input on the roles I wanted to apply to. HR Rep replied late this morning to tell me go ahead apply for roles, and don't forget to CC her. Haven't heard back from career counselor yet. Mike, my friend from training who has the same career counselor, teased that the reason our career counselor hasn't replied yet is because I wrote my life story. I didn't! Executive summary: I'm rolling off in 2 weeks. Do these roles I picked suck or not? Maybe I need to be more patient, but I definitely saw roles I was interested in disappear from last week, and a new one I saw this morning disappeared later in the afternoon.

Tonight, I finished watching Honey and Clover this evening and it was a nice, understated movie. I can't say young people growing up is a favorite genre of mine. The movie was well-acted though.

My friend, Steph, who disappeared on me for almost two weeks has invited me to ice cream social. Too bad - I already invited myself to Melanie's brother's barbecue on Saturday. That's ok, because I think socializing at beer fueled barbecue would be easier than ice cream social.

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